‘That’s Gay’ – Our Problem With Misinterpreting Misogyny
Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Recently on Twitter – where I get into most of my trouble these days – I made a comment in [...]

 
Can Women Raise A Man To Be A Man?
Tuesday, April 16, 2013

I was raised in a single mother household. For the first few years of my life, it was just my [...]

 
Demonized: (Masculine Gay) Men vs. Women
Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Why is it that, even as gay men, we feel the need to be validated by women? Wait a minute, [...]

 
You’re Allowed To Give A F*ck
Tuesday, April 16, 2013

In our community, sometime within the last decade or so, it has become cool to not care. The less fucks [...]

 
Ain’t Nobody’s Business: Coming Out On Our Own Time
Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Seattle Seahawks defensive end Chris Clemons caused a stir last week after tweeting his thoughts about the possibility of a [...]

 
‘How Could You Be So Heartless?’
Tuesday, April 9, 2013

I write about relationships a lot. In fact, someone recently called me somewhat of a relationship guru based on my [...]

 
Best (Gay) Week Ever: Is Marriage Equality On The Horizon?
Tuesday, April 9, 2013

The gay rights movement is, well, on the move. And if last week’s Supreme Court hearings were any indication, the [...]

 
A Letter To My Black Gay Brothers
Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Gay black men and straight black women have enjoyed beautiful, incomparable, amorous friendships since…well, since forever. We’ve battled homophobia, patriarchy, [...]

 
The Diary Of ‘The Other Man’
Tuesday, April 2, 2013

He winked, I looked away. He winked again, I smiled back.  Like kids at a playground, we expressed interest but [...]

 
Fashion Queens: The Portrayal Of Black Gays In The Media
Tuesday, April 2, 2013

I was inspired to write this post after watching Bravo-TV’s new show, “The Fashion Queens.” Now, before I begin this, [...]

 
No One Is Teaching Us How To Be Gay Men
Tuesday, March 26, 2013

“Black men need to start fathering their children, there’s so many gay n****s out here.” I could have begun this [...]

 
Spring Cleaning: 4 Things I’m Letting Go For Spring
Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Spring is upon us (although I’m sure most of our northeastern readers would disagree), and it’s about that time to [...]

 
The ‘Thirst’ Is Real… That’s Why I Suck At Dating
Tuesday, March 26, 2013

There’s nothing that reminds me of how much I hate dating until I’m actually getting to know someone new. When [...]

 
Yes Sir, No Sir: Assimilation Is NOT What Black Gays Need
Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Dear Assimilationists, I have a profound wish that this word, this thought would just die.  Assimilation is not the answer; [...]

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