Recently on Twitter – where I get into most of my trouble these days – I made a comment in [...]
I was raised in a single mother household. For the first few years of my life, it was just my [...]
Why is it that, even as gay men, we feel the need to be validated by women? Wait a minute, [...]
In our community, sometime within the last decade or so, it has become cool to not care. The less fucks [...]
Seattle Seahawks defensive end Chris Clemons caused a stir last week after tweeting his thoughts about the possibility of a [...]
I write about relationships a lot. In fact, someone recently called me somewhat of a relationship guru based on my [...]
The gay rights movement is, well, on the move. And if last week’s Supreme Court hearings were any indication, the [...]
Gay black men and straight black women have enjoyed beautiful, incomparable, amorous friendships since…well, since forever. We’ve battled homophobia, patriarchy, [...]
He winked, I looked away. He winked again, I smiled back. Like kids at a playground, we expressed interest but [...]
I was inspired to write this post after watching Bravo-TV’s new show, “The Fashion Queens.” Now, before I begin this, [...]
“Black men need to start fathering their children, there’s so many gay n****s out here.” I could have begun this [...]
Spring is upon us (although I’m sure most of our northeastern readers would disagree), and it’s about that time to [...]
There’s nothing that reminds me of how much I hate dating until I’m actually getting to know someone new. When [...]
Dear Assimilationists, I have a profound wish that this word, this thought would just die. Assimilation is not the answer; [...]









