“Bros before hoes” is one of the most basic tenets of a friendship. Since guys tend to come and go [...]
I am not yet thirty, but I am just slightly over twenty-five. So, in the gay world that means I [...]
We’ve all had a moment or two (or ten) when we wish we could take back what we said as [...]
There seems to be a very, very dangerous war going on right now. I’m not referring to the drones killing [...]
As I reflect on the tremendous beauty and genius within our community, I stand in awe of the brilliance I [...]
Amber Kosarick’s article, “How to Date A Fat Girl,” was passed on to me a while ago, and it was [...]
There are plenty of ways to divvy up the gay community: sexual roles, dating preferences, etc. But today, I’d like [...]
I love New York City. The food is second to none, the arts are diverse, the nightlife is bustling, and [...]
Sometimes when we’re walking through the city, I get this strong urge to hold your hand. The same urge I [...]
I was out to dinner with three fellow church members after service one Sunday. During our dinner conversation, one of [...]
I live in Philadelphia. As a single man, ideally, I’d date someone who lives in Philadelphia – or at least [...]
As we move into a new age of media and entertainment, it seems like the black SGL community is finally [...]
This was meant to be a brief rant on a horrible trend in mainstream media: its recent fascination and misuse [...]
The music industry is constantly changing. One second, an artist can be on top of the world blazing trails across [...]









