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No Jack’d, No Grindr, No Problem

Let me start by saying that I loved those apps. It was many years ago when I was first introduced to the platforms as a way to meet gay men in the area. Although the…

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Why I Choose To ‘Thirst Trap’

I imagine one day I will be on a stage like Beyoncé, but instead of the word “FEMINIST” popping on the screen behind me would the words “THIRST TRAP.” Just go with me, I envision…

Why I Haven’t And WON’T Give Up On Love

We hope, and some of us even pray, to meet someone special to share our journey with. We yearn for someone who will come into our lives to accept us as we are, but recognizing and…

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A Love Prose For My Black Gay Brothers

“This is for my brothers who dare to love other brothers in a revolutionary way.” Writing to you is an exercise in self-love and holistic restoration. I am called to reckon with the promise of…