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The Choice Is Yours: What If Being Gay Was A Choice?

The ignorance surrounding homosexuality is practically inescapable. “You can pray the gay away.” “It’s just a phase.” “You’re confused.” “You’re choosing to be this way.” We’ve heard it all before; cue Sunshine Anderson. Now despite…

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Are Your ‘Friends’ Really Your Friends?

My phone should just explode when I try to call or text certain numbers. Namely people who I don’t have any good business talking to. One night out celebrating the birthday of a friend, the…

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The Magic In Being Black & Queer

Probably, one of the biggest fantasies that I played around with in my head was to be purposeless. I thought how ravishing it would be to be aimless and to just exist because I was…

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What’s The Best Way For A Guy To Ask You Out?

Black gay men have a multitude of everyday problems to deal with, but no task seems as daunting as finding a suitable partner. We’re such a varied group of people; however, as humans we all…

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HIMASTE: Leo Rising

How did you become interested in yoga? Growing up I loved to dance but I never quite identified as a dancer. I also loved to sing but I never said I was Michael Bolton, I…

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He Reads: ‘Harlem Boyz’

There’s a new novel that is currently the talk of the town. From the recent published reviews to everyday kitchen table talk, this new book is currently on everyone’s mind. “Harlem Boyz” written by Armani…

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Self-Love: Two Roses For Timothy

This Valentine’s Day was the best Valentine’s Day of my life. It was not the best Valentine’s Day, because I found a companion, or because I had sex. In fact, neither the former nor the…