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Lessons From Dating The Pulpit: This Little Light Of Mine

By the following Saturday, Mister Preacher Man and I’s text conversations and casual meetups had become an everyday highpoint. I was high off the typical initial neurotransmitters dopamine and norepinephrine that typically emit when you’re…

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Love Me Tinder: My Journey Back Into Dating

After a pretty intense breakup and a string of if-you-have-nothing-nice-to-say “dates” (using that word loosely), I decided to go on an indefinite hiatus from the dating scene. It’s already rough enough living in a city…

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No Jack’d, No Grindr, No Problem

Let me start by saying that I loved those apps. It was many years ago when I was first introduced to the platforms as a way to meet gay men in the area. Although the…

Why I Haven’t And WON’T Give Up On Love

We hope, and some of us even pray, to meet someone special to share our journey with. We yearn for someone who will come into our lives to accept us as we are, but recognizing and…

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My Friend & His Down Low Lover

The best stories I have to tell are the ones that I have no business telling. Everyone has them, I suppose, those ghost stories or fables that are more unsettling because the protagonist is someone…