Fat Gay Woes: Find A Gym, Find A Man?

Show me a bitter fat boy who swears anyone who desires a guy with striated thighs and a six-pack is jaded and “missing out on real love,” and I’ll show you an unhappy fat boy…


Why Are Gay Men So Afraid Of Fat?

“No fats!” “I don’t do fat.” “If you’re fat, don’t hit me up.” “Be in shape!” I’m sure you all have seen, heard or maybe even used those phrases above to describe what’s acceptable in…


No Fats, No Fems, No Oldheads

Cruising a gay website is like reading the admissions guidelines for an Ivy League school: full of arbitrary criteria that you likely won’t meet.  Or, it can be like trying to find health insurance with…