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What Does It Mean To Be A ‘Regular’ Gay Man?

“Black Gay Problem #155: Still waiting for my TV show. The one about the ordinary gay dude that has a regular life, doesn’t fuck everything gay,  doesn’t have a sassy slick tongue and doesn’t dress…

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How To Date A Feminine Man

Adjusting to becoming confident in your adulthood is such an amazing thing. What I thought was forever wasn’t forever. Who I admired one year ago, I now pity. I grew up. I grow up. Most…

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Homos With Homophobia, Bruh

There seems to be a very, very dangerous war going on right now. I’m not referring to the drones killing innocents in Pakistan, the tons of illegal drugs being smuggled from Colombia, nor the outcry…

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No Fats, No Fems, No Oldheads

Cruising a gay website is like reading the admissions guidelines for an Ivy League school: full of arbitrary criteria that you likely won’t meet.  Or, it can be like trying to find health insurance with…

Walk Like A Man?

“Bounce? My walk is bouncy?” That was my response to my boyfriend when he described the distinctive way I walk. “Babe, you have a very cute…bounce to your walk. I like it!” Though he said it…

My Night With A Downlow Brother

The night started out like any other. My girls and I met up for a late happy hour.  As it got closer to 11:00, the spot started to fill up. A few women came in…