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Opening My Mind To Open Relationships

This past June marks 10 years since I came out of the closet and accepted the fact that I am a homosexual male. In that time, I have witnessed several different types of gay relationships…

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How To Compromise Without Being A B*tch

A buddy of mine recently tweeted, “A compromise isn’t a compromise when only one party is doing so. That’s sacrifice. Don’t get conned into believing otherwise.” Wiser words have never been spoken, unless he stole…

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No Strings Attached: Sleeping With My Ex

Unlike almost everyone I know – gay, straight, black and white alike – I’m not convinced of the virtues of “ex sex.” I expressed this once to a friend who informed me that he was…

5 Ways To Kill Your Relationship Dead

In this day and age, good relationships are hard to come by and even harder to maintain. Even that couple you know that seems happy all the time has its issues – you just don’t…

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Lessons From Living With My Boyfriend

Until recently, few people actually knew I was in a relationship. This may be due to the fact that I hardly changed once I entered into one. For the first few years, I was still…

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The Wrong Side Of Love

“What part of how I treated you, ever made you think I cared about you?” I will never forget those words spoken to me by my former love. They serve as the straw that broke…

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Situationships: Almost, But Not Quite

“I’m tired of being good enough to fuck, but not good enough to love…” – this is a common sentiment shared among my friends and through conversations I have with people I meet. An endless…