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I Choose To Love Black Gay Men

Using the media as a litmus test, one would think romantic love among black gay men is in dire straits. Prominent black gay men like Michael Sam and Derrick Gordon both have white lovers, and…

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The Politics Of ‘Preference’

I know a man, a young(ish) light-skinned, bearish type who is an aspiring actor who delights whenever someone mistakes him for any race or ethnicity other than black. Actually, when I first met him he…

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The Trials & Triumphs Of Interracial Dating

I’m not sure how common it is or what exactly contributed to it, but from the time I became sexually active (17) up until maybe 23, I was almost exclusively attracted to white men…and Chris…

The Great White Gay Hope?

Yesterday, I watched a web series called “Hunting Season.” Despite the show being everything the gay community is trying to avoid (a show surrounded by mindless sex), I found it to be a little entertaining. The…

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I Don’t Date Outside My Race

People always question why I wouldn’t date outside of my race.  Usually, I prefer not to discuss a subject that I have already made up my mind on. Hell, sometimes I wonder if people say they…