I’m not sure how common it is or what exactly contributed to it, but from the time I became sexually [...]
Last Saturday night I sat down for dinner at one of my favorite Thai restaurants in New York City. I [...]
I’ve been hurt. You’ve been hurt. We ALL have been or will be hurt at some time in our lives. [...]
People are often shocked when they find out that I don’t have a type. Sometimes it makes me wonder what [...]
This week marks the seventh anniversary of my father’s passing. Every year I take this time to pause and evaluate [...]
I write about relationships a lot. In fact, someone recently called me somewhat of a relationship guru based on my [...]
Gay black men and straight black women have enjoyed beautiful, incomparable, amorous friendships since…well, since forever. We’ve battled homophobia, patriarchy, [...]
He winked, I looked away. He winked again, I smiled back. Like kids at a playground, we expressed interest but [...]
While I was living in the DC area, about 4 years ago I met this guy on Facebook and he [...]
There’s nothing that reminds me of how much I hate dating until I’m actually getting to know someone new. When [...]
I love sex. I don’t have it often, but it’s amazing when I do. From the touch from another body, [...]
There once was a time I thought I’d never speak to this man again. Despite a recent disaster that had [...]
Where do I begin? I cannot speak on the subject without giving personal accounts, so I guess I will take [...]
“Pause before you play because you can’t rewind.” This is the enlightening tagline for Pause, a steamy new short film [...]









