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When Ideals Become Unrealistic

During one of my many discussions with my friend Shay about the ups and downs of single dating life, we discussed our ideals and finding…

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The Dating Game

I recently ended a seven-year relationship that came very easy to me, in hindsight. The story is simple: boy meets a man who is ready…

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No Fats, No Fems, No Oldheads

Cruising a gay website is like reading the admissions guidelines for an Ivy League school: full of arbitrary criteria that you likely won’t meet.  Or,…