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A Letter To My Black Gay Brothers

Gay black men and straight black women have enjoyed beautiful, incomparable, amorous friendships since…well, since forever. We’ve battled homophobia, patriarchy, misogyny, and sexism together — forces that render us both marginalized — throughout history (see:…

Dear Future Straight Guy Friend-

Dear Future Straight Guy Friend- The other day I realized I don’t have any straight guy friends. Not one true friend who likes fish. Then it occurred to me that only one straight guy follows…

My Night With A Downlow Brother

The night started out like any other. My girls and I met up for a late happy hour.  As it got closer to 11:00, the spot started to fill up. A few women came in…